Wednesday, February 25, 2026
Coffee With Sister Vassa -- REFLECTION for WEDNESDAY of THE 1st WEEK OF LENT
Discernment. Wisdom. Knowledge. Understanding. Are these the things I’ve been searching for “diligently, …as for treasures”? At times, yes. But I need to be reminded, again and again, that these essential gifts, without which my life becomes utterly unmanageable, come from God. I must not only ask Him for them, but “cry out” for them when need be. Because I desperately need God to nudge me in the right direction, despite the weaknesses and distortions in my own vision of things.
Let me re-connect with, and stay close to, Him, this first Wednesday of Lent, especially when I don’t know what I’m doing, or what to do next. Because “from his presence come knowledge and wisdom.” Help me, Lord, do the next right thing today, in Your presence and grace. Amen!
Monday, October 6, 2025
From the "Counsels" of the Elder Amphilochios of Patmos
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- Consider all people to be greater than yourself, though they may have many weaknesses. Don't act with hardness, but always think that each person has the same destination as we do. Through the grace of God I consider all people to be saintly and greater than myself.
- I was born to love people. It doesn't concern me if he is a Turk, black, or white. I see in the face of each person the image of God. And for this image of God I am willing to sacrifice everything.
- When a person partakes of Holy Communion he receives power and is enlightened, his horizons widen and he feels joy. Each person experiences something different, analogous to his disposition and the flame of his soul. One person feels joy and rest, another peace, another a spirit of devotion and another an inexpressible sympathy towards all things. Personally, I have often felt tired, but after Holy Communion I felt myself completely renewed.
- Love Christ, have humility, prayer and patience. These are the four points of your spiritual compass. May the magnetic needle be your youthful Christian heart.
- We must love Christ; this is necessary for the life of our soul. We also need to love God's creation: animals, trees, flowers, birds, and above all, the most perfect of God's creation, men and women.
- Whoever plants a tree, plants hope, peace, and love, and has the blessings of God.
- When someone opens your heart, I'd like him to find nothing there but Christ.
- An egotistic person doesn't attract anyone. And if someone is attracted, that person will soon distance himself. The spiritual bond becomes indissoluble only when it meets a child-like spirit of innocence and holiness.
- He who is without love cannot be called a Christian, lest we mock Christianity.
- My children, I don't want Paradise without you.
From Precious Vessels of the Holy Spirit, p. 51-61.
Friday, March 14, 2025
Fragments for Friday
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Dear Parish Faithful,
The Book of Proverbs is one of the three OT books prescribed for Great Lent. The genre is Wisdom literature. In the opening chapters, we read repeatedly of a father exhorting his son to listen to his counsel, for life experience
and a desire to acquire wisdom are characteristics that the father would like to impart to his son, so that he would not make those types of mistakes that youth are so prone to. Here is one of many examples:
My son, be attentive to my wisdom,
incline your ear to my understanding;that you may keep discretion,and your lips may guard knowledge.
Prov. 5:1-2
My immediate purpose in turning to Proverbs is to provide a short introduction to the paragraph below. It was sent to me by Spencer Settles, in reaction to Wednesday's Midmorning Meditation that centered around a passage from Theology of the Body by Jean Claude Larchet. And that passage, if you recall, was an excellent summary of the Church's understanding of what it means to created "in the image andaccording to the likeness of God." As a Proverbs father, Spencer chose to speak to his older son, John, about this passage. (John, by the way, is 8 1/2 yrs. old!). The conversation helped Spencer come to a fuller understanding of that teaching, and the meaning of amartia (sin) and how it undermines that human vocation of attaining the likeness of God.
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John and I just had a conversation yesterday about striving after the “likeness.” We were talking about sin and I was trying to help him see that sin is not so much about rule breaking (though it manifests that way, particularly as a child), but is ultimately about departing from our course toward Christlikeness. We talked about how, in the analogy of an arrow “missing the mark” (what I’ve been told “hamartia” harkens to), we are not the archer, whose arrows either hits the mark or don’t, over and over again. But rather we are the arrow, either on a trajectory toward the target or deviating from it over the course of our lives. He and I both tend to be moralists, focusing on each of our actions and whether or not they were a “bullseye,” but I’m learning to think about my whole life as an arrow’s journey home. Maybe at various points it twists and yaws, upset by some crosswind or another, but these are mere moments in an overall trajectory toward the likeness of Christ.
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A father-son conversation right out of the Book of Proverbs!
Monday, May 31, 2021
12 Questions with 3 Metropolitans
Dear Parish Faithful,
CHRIST IS RISEN!
INDEED HE IS RISEN!
Pascha - The Thirtieth Day
This morning, I am simply forwarding a YouTube presentation of three Orthodox Metropolitans offering "sound bite" words of wisdom together with a dose of humor here and there.This was sent to us by our dear friend, Mother Paula. I believe they are addressing themselves to Orthodox Christians who have recently graduated, I believe, from college. But everyone can enjoy what the three hierarchs have to say on a variety of topics. It is only slightly over seven minutes long, so take a short "break" and hear something you won't hear elsewhere.
Fr. Steven
Commencement Week 2021: 12 Questions with 3 Metropolitans
Orthodox Christian Fellowship (OCF) YouTube Channel
Friday, January 26, 2018
A Lenten Reading List
Dear Parish Faithful,
Fr. Steven
A 'Mosaic of Wisdom' from St John Chrysostom
Dear Parish Faithful,
Grace shining forth from your lips like a beacon has enlightened the universe. It has shown the world the riches of poverty. It has revealed to us the heights of humility. Teaching us by your words, O Father John Chrysostom, intercede before the Word, Christ our God, to save our souls.
And again:
You were revealed as the sure foundation of the Church, granting all men a lordship which cannot be taken away, sealing it with your precepts, O venerable and heavenly father.
"A rich man is not one who has much, but one who gives much. For what he gives away remains his forever."
"The Church is a hospital, and not a courtroom, for souls. She does not condemn on behalf of sins, but grants remission of sins."
"The Holy Scriptures were not given to us that we should enclose them in books, but that we should engrave them upon our hearts."
"If you do not find Christ in the beggar at the church door, neither will you find him in the Chalice."
"Let no one mourn that he has fallen again and again for forgiveness has risen from the grave."
"The only person who is free is the one who lives for Christ."
Wednesday, July 26, 2017
'Precious Vessels' #3: Elder Porphyrios
Dear Parish Faithful,
Counsels of the Elder Porphyrios
- Christ is our Friend, our Brother; He is whatever is beautiful and good. He is everything. In Christ there is no gloom, melancholy or introversion, whereas man suffers from various temptations and situations which make him suffer. Christ is joy, life, light, the true light, which makes man glad, makes him fly, makes him see all things, see all people, suffer for all people, and want all people to be with him, close to him.
- Our love in Christ must reach all places, even to the hippies in Crete. I very much wanted to go there, not to preach to them, or to condemn them, but to live with them, without sin of course, and leave the love of Christ to speak of itself, which transfigures life.
- There is an electric generator and in the room is a lamp. If, however, we don't flip the switch, we will remain in darkness. Similarly, there is Christ and there is the soul. If, however, we don't flip the switch of prayer, our soul will not see the light of Christ and will remain in the darkness of the devil.
- I am not afraid of hell and I do not think about Paradise. I only ask God to have mercy on the entire world as well as on me.
- What is the spiritual battle? Well, the soul is a garden divided into two parts. On one half are planted thorny bushes, and on the other half, flowers. We also have a water pump with two taps and two channels. The one guides the water to the thorns and the other to the flowers. I always have the choice to open one or the other tap. I leave the thorns without water and they dry up, I water the flowers and they blossom.
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- Continue along your path. The devil will come with his tempting thoughts and will tug at your sleeve, so as to disorient you. Don't turn to him, don't start a conversation with him, and don't oppose him. In this way the devil will get bored and will leave you alone.
- When I became a monk I felt better. Even my health improved. Although previously I had been sickly, afterwards I became healthier, with the ability to bear labors with psychical courage. Above all, however, I felt eternal. The Church is a mystery. Whoever enters the Church doesn't die, he is saved, is eternal. Thus I always feel eternal, as though immortal. Having become a monk I believe that death does not exist. This thought captivates me.
- Orthodox asceticism is not just for the monasteries, but also for the world.
- When asked how one should vote, the Elder responded in parable. The Orthodox Church is like a brooding hen. Under Her wings she covers black chicks and white chicks, yellow chicks and chicks of every different color.
- What can politicians do for you? They are confused by their psychical passions. When a person is unable to help himself, how can he help others? We are also to blame for this situation. If we were Christians, we would be able to send to parliament, not a Christian political party of course, but Christian politicians, and these things would be different.
- Today people want to be loved and for this reason they are unsuccessful. The correct way is to not be interested in whether or not people love you, but whether or not you love Christ and people. This is the only way that the soul is fulfilled.
Saturday, July 15, 2017
'Precious Vessels' #2: The Elder Epiphanios of Athens
Dear Parish Faithful,
"I am not afraid of death. Not, of course, because of my works, but because I believe in God's mercy." - The Elder Epiphanios of Athens
Here are some of his Counsels:
- "When I study the Holy Scripture and the patristic books, I leave the earth and go to Heaven.... I don't manage to write my thoughts in time, for I am flooded as with flakes of snow. I feel as though my pen has wings."
- "I want whoever is near me to feel that he has room to breathe, not that he is suffocated. I don't call anyone to me. I don't hold onto to anyone. I don't chase anyone away. Whoever wants comes, whoever wants stays, whoever wants leaves. I don't consider anyone a supporter or a follower."
- "True love is like the flame of a candle. However many candles you light from the flame, the initial flame remains unaffected. It doesn't lessen at all. And every freshly lit candle has as much flame as the others do."
- "Parents should love their children as their children and not as their idols. That is to say, they should love their children as they are and not how they would like them to be - to be like them."
- "Whoever fears God doesn't fear anything else."
- "God appointed the salvation of the world to His Son and not to us.... We must first look at our soul and if we can, let's help five or six people around us."
- "Don't sit glued to the television ... Guard yourselves from the means of mass blinding."
- "I have made an agreement with God: I will empty my pockets in almsgiving and He will fill them. He has never violated our agreement. Will I violate it? May it never happen!"
- "When someone is free, he has rights and responsibilities. When he marries, he has few rights and very many responsibilities. When, however, he has children, he doesn't have any right at all, but only responsibilities."
- "My heart only has entrances. It doesn't have exits. Whoever enters remains there. Whatever he may do, I love him the same as I loved him when he first entered into my heart. I pray for him and seek his salvation."
- "My worst hell is to realize that I have saddened a beloved person."
Wednesday, July 5, 2017
Elders and Eldresses - Precious Vessels of the Holy Spirit
Dear Parish Faithful,
"Forget your sins; our Christ has blotted them out from the Book of Life." (Elder Amphilochios of Patmos)
What is an elder? An elder is one who takes your soul, your will into his soul and into his will. Having chosen an elder, you renounce your will and give it to him under total obedience and with total self-renunciation.
A man who dooms himself to this trial, this terrible school of life, does so voluntarily, in the hope that after the long trial he will achieve self-conquest, self-mastery to such a degree that he will, finally, through a whole life's obedience, attain to perfect freedom - that is, freedom from himself - and avoid the lot of those who live their whole lives without finding themselves in themselves.
What most distinguished his character was his gentleness, his humor, the warmth of his affection, and his sense of tranquil yet triumphant joy. His smile was full of love, but devoid of all sentimentality. Life in Christ, as he understood it, is not a heavy yoke, a burden to be carried with sullen resignation, but a personal relationship to be pursued with eagerness of heart. He was firmly opposed to all spiritual violence and cruelty.
It was typical that, as he lay dying and took leave of the nuns under his care, he should urge the abbess not to be too severe on them: "They have left everything to come here, they must not be unhappy."
Two things in particular I recall about him. The first was his love of nature and, more especially, of trees...
A second thing that stands out in my memory is the counsel which he gave when, as a newly-ordained priest, the time had come for me to return from Patmos to Oxford, where I was to begin teaching in the university. He himself had never visited the west, but he had a shrewd perception of the situation of Orthodoxy in the Diaspora.
"Do not be afraid," he insisted. Do not be afraid because of your Orthodoxy, he told me; do not be afraid because as an Orthodox in the west, you will be often isolated and always in a small minority. Do not make compromises but do not attack other Christians; do not be either defensive or aggressive, simply be yourself."
(Precious Vessels of the Holy Spirit, p. 48-49).
From the "Counsels" of the Elder Amphilochios of Patmos
- Consider all people to be greater than yourself, though they may have many weaknesses. Don't act with hardness, but always think that each person has the same destination as we do. Through the grace of God I consider all people to be saintly and greater than myself.
- I was born to love people. It doesn't concern me if he is a Turk, black, or white. I see in the face of each person the image of God. And for this image of God I am willing to sacrifice everything.
- When a person partakes of Holy Communion he receives power and is enlightened, his horizons widen and he feels joy. Each person experiences something different, analogous to his disposition and the flame of his soul. One person feels joy and rest, another peace, another a spirit of devotion and another an inexpressible sympathy towards all things. Personally, I have often felt tired, but after Holy Communion I felt myself completely renewed.
- Love Christ, have humility, prayer and patience. These are the four points of your spiritual compass. May the magnetic needle be your youthful Christian heart.
- We must love Christ; this is necessary for the life of our soul. We also need to love God's creation: animals, trees, flowers, birds, and above all, the most perfect of God's creation, men and women.
- Whoever plants a tree, plants hope, peace, and love, and has the blessings of God.
- When someone opens your heart, I'd like him to find nothing there but Christ.
- An egotistic person doesn't attract anyone. And if someone is attracted, that person will soon distance himself. The spiritual bond becomes indissoluble only when it meets a child-like spirit of innocence and holiness.
- He who is without love cannot be called a Christian, lest we mock Christianity.
- My children, I don't want Paradise without you.
Friday, October 14, 2016
Wisdom of the Divine Philosophers - Volume Two
Dear Parish Faithful & Friends in Christ,
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Fear of death is a property of nature due to disobedience, but terror of death is a sign of unrepented sins.
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Friday, January 15, 2016
More Wisdom on Prayer...
Dear Parish Faithful,
"As our body cannot live without breathing, so our soul cannot keep alive without knowing the Creator; for the ignorance of God is the death of the soul." ~ St. Basil the Great
"Exhort yourself, force yourself, to prayer and every good work, however contrary be your inclination. As a lazy horse, driven by a whip, is compelled by man to walk and to trot, even so must we coerce ourselves into performing every kind of labor, and how much more, to pray. God, beholding your efforts and your labor, will grant you zeal and inclination. Habit of itself creates the inclination, and, it might be said, attracts us toward prayer and good deeds." ~ St. Tikhon of Zadonsk
"Do not pray for the fulfillment of your wishes, for they may not accord with the will of God. But pray as you have been taught, saying: Thy will be done in me (LK. 22:42). Always entreat Him in this way that His will be done. For He desires what is good and profitable for you, whereas you do not always ask for this." ~ Evagrios the Solitary
"Prayers at home are an introduction, a preparation for prayers in Church. Thus he who is not accustomed to pray at home can seldom pray diligently in Church. Experience bears witness to this: anyone can observe it for himself." ~ St. John of Kronstadt
Thursday, November 19, 2015
True Love of Wisdom
Dear Parish Faithful,
I have a new book that I am looking through, entitled Wisdom of the Divine Philosophers.
Anger is a strong fire, consuming all things in its path; it wastes the body and corrupts the soul, and renders a man base and odious to look upon.
And if it were possible for the angry man to see himself at the time of his anger, he would not need any other admonition, for there is nothing less pleasing than an angry countenance. Anger is an intoxicant and more wretched that a demon.
— St. John Chrysostom
The first step toward freedom from anger is to keep the lips silent when the heart is stirred; the next, to keep the thoughts silent when the soul is stirred, the last, to be totally calm when unclean winds are blowing.
— St. John Klimakos
Firmly control anger and desire, and you will speedily rid yourself of evil thoughts. Control desire and you will dominate anger; for desire gives rise to anger.
— St. Thalassios the Libyan
To bear a grudge and pray, means to sow seed on the sea and expect a harvest.
— St. Isaac the Syrian
Strive to receive a sure, unequivocal pledge of salvation in your heart, so that at the time of your death you will not be distraught and unexpectedly terrified. You have received such a pledge when your heart no longer reproaches you for your failings and your conscience stops chiding you because of your fits of anger; when through God's grace your bestial passions have been tamed; when you weep tears of solace and your intellect prays undistracted and with purity; and when you await death, which most people dread and run away from, calmly and with a ready heart.
— St. Theognostos of Alexandria
From Wisdom of The Divine Philosophers, Volume I, p. 1-2.













