Monday, April 26, 2010

Healing our Paralytic Narcissism


Dear Parish Faithful,


CHRIST IS RISEN!

Pascha - The Twenty Third Day


"Sometime in the 1920's, a young man, practically a boy, left a note and then committed suicide: 'I do not want to live in a world where everyone is playing a con game...' All of this was suffocating him, he could not stand it any longer. But we are gradually harassed into accepting this as normal, and the horror of self-centeredness we cease experiencing as horrible ... This is what the Gospel story of the paralytic is about. All these sick, helpless, paralyzed people are sick first and foremost with incurable narcissism. This is what brings a person to cry: 'I have no man!' There is no one! And this means that a person comes into being when narcissism is overcome; it means that human beings, above all, are a face turned toward the other person, eyes looking intently with concern and love into the eyes of the other person. It is love, co-suffering and care. The Gospel also tells us that this new and authentic human being has been revealed to us, has come to us in Christ. In him, the One who comes to the lonely and long-suffering paralytic is no stranger, but 'his own'; He comes in order to take the sick man's sufferings as his own, his life as his own, to help and to heal."

Fr. Alexander Schmemann, Celebration of Faith, Vol. 2

Friday, April 23, 2010

The Mystery of the Myrrhbearing Women


Dear Parish Faithful,

CHRIST IS RISEN!

Pascha - The Twentieth Day

Those whom Christ had asked to stay with him at the hour of his agonizing struggle, when He "began to be greatly distressed and troubled" (MK. 14:33), dropped him, ran away and renounced him. But those from whom he asked nothing remained faithful in their simple human love. "Mary stood weeping outside the tomb" (JN. 20:11). Down through the centuries, love has always wept in this way, as Christ wept at the grave of his friend Lazarus. Here then, it is this love, which first learns of the victory; this love, this faithfulness is the first to know that there is no longer any need for weeping, for "death is swallowed up in victory" (I COR. 15:54), and hopeless separation is no more.

This is what the Sunday of the Myrrhbearing Women means. It reminds us that the love and faithfulness of a few individuals shone brightly in the midst of hopeless darkness. It calls us to ensure that in this world love and faithfulness do not disappear or die out. It judges our lack of courage, our fear, our endless and servile rationalizations. The mysterious Joseph and Nicodemus, and these women who go to the grave at dawn, occupy so little space in the gospels. Precisely here, however, is where the eternal fate of each of us is decided."

And if, despite all the evil that dominates the world, the mysterious feast of life still continues, if it is still celebrated in a poverty-stricken room, at a barren table, just as joyously as in a palace, then the joy and light of this feast is in her, in woman, in her never-fading love and faithfulness. "The wine gave out ..." (JN. 2:3), but while she is here - mother, wife, bride - there is enough wine, enough love, enough light for everyone ...

Fr. Alexander Schmemann, Celebration of Faith, Vol. 2

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

'I was in Prison, and You Came to Me...'


Dear Parish Faithful,

CHRIST IS RISEN!

Pascha - The Eighteenth Day


Following the Liturgy on Sunday, a group from the parish visited the Warren Correctional Institute, and offered a program of Orthodox liturgical music to a gathering of about thirty-forty of the inmates. This was organized by Terry Morgan who is a member of the Kairos Prison Ministry at the WCI, and Pat Pride, our parish choir director. I accompanied the group that consisted of:

Brian Farison
Joe Kormos
Joyce Kormos
Presbytera Deborah Kostoff
Jeannie Markvan
Terry Morgan
Pat Pride (choir director)
Steve Pride
Johnothon Sauer

After passing through security we were given a brief description of the facilities and the over-all organization of the prison by Chaplain Henry. This prison contains very serious offenders, including rapists and murderers. It is just a notch below maximum security. He then walked us through the prison grounds to the chapel and introduced us to the inmates who were present based on a promotional flier that was posted on the bulletin board of the chapel, announcing a "Concert of Eastern Orthodox Music from the Ancient Faith." That promised to be something different, I would imagine. Pat put together a very effective program, that began with an example of the "ancientness" of the Orthodox Faith ("O, Gladsome Light"). What followed then was a journey from the pre-lenten period (stichera from the Sunday of the Prodigal Son, "Open to Me the Gates of Repentance"); Great Lent itself (stichera from the Sunday of the Cross, Praises from the Matins of Holy Friday, "Do Not Lament Me O Mother"); and culminating with Pascha ("The Angel Cried," and "Let God Arise").

The program and our singing was very enthusiastically received by the gathered inmates. Not knowing what to expect, based upon the sheer "otherness" of what we were presenting, that was both a relief and a cause of joy for all of us. There was a bit of Q & A to follow, and that further created at least a momentary "bond" between two groups that clearly come from two very distinct worlds of experience. There was even a final request for us to return at Christmas. Wait until they hear "Today the Virgin Gives Birth to the Transcendent One" instead of "Silent Night!"

What I found quite interesting, though, was the response of Chaplain Henry who spoke to the group briefly before we departed. He was clearly impressed by the rich theological content of the hymnography, making it clear that that is not what is any longer heard nowadays. He was struck by the fact that some of the hymns evoked a feeling of "sadness," and others of "joyfulness." He commented on how that led to a fuller experience than that of the loud and boisterous noise accompanying contemporary "worship music." This all seemed to touch a deep chord within him and confronted him with what he was missing in his own worship. It may have been a fleeting response, but he clearly lamented that absence. He was groping, on the spot, to offer a quick and accessible history lesson for the inmates about the "old days" when the hymnography reinforced the Scriptures and the "story" of the Gospel based upon the Death and Resurrection of Christ. He even told the inmates, this is how it was done "in the days of Jesus and the apostles!"

What was of greater importance, though, was the fact of our brief encounter and contact - however briefly - with this small group of prisoners at the WCI. No doubt, the prisoners are "reaping what they sowed." They have committed crimes and their prison sentences are the "price" they paid for those crimes, and the for the horrible fact that other people have been victimized in irreversible ways that we cannot begin to fathom. Yet, these are all human persons created "in the image and likeness of God." Many of the prisoners have repented of their crimes and become believing Christians in the process. The limitless forgiveness of God in that context must be overwhelming. And their remorse must be fearsome. This is all combined with the fact that life in a prison facility - regardless of how well administrated it may be - must be one long nightmare of alienation, loneliness, social ostracism, and constant fear of what can happen within the walls of a prison. Christ emphatically teaches that visiting those in prison is an act of charity and compassion. We also pray for those in prisons in our liturgies. Standing and singing before the inmates, conversing a bit afterward and shaking some offered hands was a good way of bringing to mind these men who are seeking to recover their humanity and dignity as they serve out their "just" sentences. For both our choir and the inmates it was a learning experience for all who were involved as we both tried to reach across some real barriers. And for this we glorify God.

We are glad that our parish is represented in the Kairos prison ministry at WCI by Terry Morgan and Dan Georgescu. We are further glad that our children and families assist in the "cookies for prison ministry program." (Those cookies, incidentally, are due on Sunday, May 2). I am sure that we will find other opportunities for contact in the future.

In Christ,

Fr. Steven

Friday, April 16, 2010

St Gregory Palamas on the Lord's Day, Pt 3


Dear Parish Faithful,

CHRIST IS RISEN!

Pascha - The Thirteenth Day

St. Gregory Palamas continues in his homily on The Sabbath and the Lord's Day, to draw some of the consequences and effects upon the believers to their commitment to the Risen Christ on the Lord's Day. This commitment needs to be as thorough as possible for members of the Church:

Let no one out of laziness or continuous worldly occupations miss these holy Sunday gatherings, which God Himself handed down to us, lest he be justly abandoned by God and suffer like Thomas, who did not come at the right time. If you are detained and do not attend on one occasion, make up for it the next time, bringing yourself to Christ's Church. Otherwise you may remain uncured, suffering from unbelief in your soul because of deeds or words, and failing to approach Christ's surgery to receive, like the divine Thomas, holy healing. There exist not only thoughts and words of faith but also deeds and acts of faith - "Show me," it says, "your faith by your works" (cf. Jas. 2:18) - and if someone abandons these and is completely distanced from the Church of Christ and given over wholly to worthless pursuits, his faith is dead, or non-existent, and he himself has become dead through sin."

I shall tell you, in your charity, something which has just occurred to me. I noticed that Thomas lost his faith when he was absent, but when he was together with the believers his faith did not in any way fall short. So I have the idea that if only a sinner will flee the company of immoral men and associate with the just, he will never be found lacking in righteousness or the resultant salvation of his soul. It seems to me that the psalmist and prophet was hinting at this when he called blessed the man who avoided sitting with the scornful and being their companion (cf. Ps. 1:1). Another prophet writes, "Thou shalt not follow the multitude to do evil" (Ex. 23:2), and the author of Proverbs says, "Where sinners gather, the fire breaks out" (Ecclus. 16:6), "but he that walks with wise men shall be wise" (Prov. 13:20).

St. Gregory Palamas (+1359) - Homily on the Sabbath and the Lord's Day


Fr. Steven

Thursday, April 15, 2010

St Gregory Palamas on the Lord's Day, Pt 2

Dear Parish Faithful,

CHRIST IS RISEN!

Pascha - The Twelfth Day


St. Gregory Palamas continues (from the same homily from yesterday) to reveal the deeper meaning of the Lord's Day - Sunday - and its relationship to the Resurrection of Christ:

You will understand how much better Sunday is than other feastdays from what follows. Every other festival comes round once a year, but the Lord's Day comes round four times each month, and this frequent recurrence makes the whole year a year of true remission for us, a year acceptable to the Lord (cf. Isa. 61:2). It was in order to teach us to celebrate it in practice at the end of each week that the Lord first appeared to the disciples inside the house while Thomas was absent (Jn. 20:19-24). He proved He was alive and gave them peace. By His breathing upon them He renewed the divine breath given in the beginning (Gen. 2:7), and endowed them with the grace of the Holy Spirit, imbuing them with divine power to bind and loose sins. He made them sharers in the exercise of His heavenly lordship, saying to them, "receive ye the Holy Spirit: Whosesoever sins ye remit, they are remitted unto them; and whoseover sins ye retain, they are retained" (Jn. 20:22-23).

The Lord granted them this power and grace when He appeared to them on the very day of His resurrection, obviously a Sunday. Then, letting the intervening days of the week elapse, He appeared in the same manner and in the same house, on the eighth day, the Sunday we celebrate today, to inaugurate His festival and to bring the hesitant Thomas to faith. According to the Savior's beloved evangelist and disciple, "After eight days again his disciples were within, and Thomas was with them: then came Jesus, the doors being shut, and stood in the midst, and said, Peace be unto you" (JN 20:26).

You will see that it was Sunday when the disciples assembled and the Lord came to them. On Sunday He approached them for the first time as they wer gathered together, and eight days later, when Sunday came round again, He appeared to their assembly. Christ's Church continually reflects these gatherings by holding its meetings mostly on Sundays, and we come among you and preach what pertains to salvation and lead you towards piety and a godly way of life.

St. Gregory Palamas (+1359) - Homily on the Sabbath and the Lord's Day


Fr. Steven